Yes, and life too.
We've all parted ways and chosen to move in the route we want to and think is the best for us.
Decisions are always hard to make, but we constantly have to make them.
Regrets are often the result; but much more of a time, satisfaction is what we get, second only to the experience we earn.
We've all, everybody, been through so much, either as the sole guardian of our own life or as a group altogether.
Every single one of those that I know and knows me, we've crossed path and acknowledged each other's existence.
Especially those that suffered, shared and enjoyed together alongside me.
Even if there are many regrets around, the experience is definitely worth it.
'What is your greatest regret?'
I really don't have an answer. I've got so many regrets, and they all weigh equally.
So many people that once appeared and played a major portion of my life suddenly disappeared.
I know I'm to blame; I've always told myself to be subjective.
But there's nothing easy about this.
I've been wondering,
What if someone whom you know him/her as honest lied to you for something he/she thinks it's better for you to not know but you find the truth important.
Who's at fault?
He/she for trying to achieve a better outcome?
Or he/she for always being so honest; so much so that it hurts when he/she lied?
Neither, right? So I guess the fault is with ourselves; for asking too much.
Perhaps all the negatives that we so often see in others are due to unjustified expectations we have on others that we don't have rights on.
Perhaps what is wrong is never with people outside of ourselves; it's just our own value judgement and personal preference of expected behaviours.
But well, everyone changes; in fact, everybody's changing, now and always.
