Pinky black partehhhhh!
Some friends don't have to talk often to know how close they are; just look at the topics we discuss -.-
Guy-girl group mind you, not the usual men's gross talk.
I didn't really care whether I was invited initially and even questioned the guest list when it first came out. Weird combination and even weirder chat group resulted but the party was the least awkward one I've been to. And most importantly, maybe the invitation was given out with other factors other than importance considered, but the fact that your planning gave us due consideration is good enough to know. Save the disgusting topics, thanks for the night everyone; and thanks for the invitation Ms Chng!
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I came home and mum asked if Angbao is good enough for my birthday, and whether I wanna have any celebration with my friends like what my brother and sister did. The fact that I'm talking so much about it here and giving it thorough consideration should prove enough that I don't find it as minor an event as I appear to put it. But I really don't have the strength and ability to get everyone important to me to appear together, no matter how rare the chance may be or how much the occasion calls for. I don't wanna risk the moment of regret when one or two fail to appear, nor to face the disappointment when the turn out isn't as expected. Let's just save the awkwardness and keep it simple; live as though it's just another day. I'll be studying for my papers, teaching tuition, and preparing for camp on that day; celebrating the anniversary of my life with what I do with my life any other day, and celebrating any other day of my life as though it's the anniversary.
Because you never know which day is gonna be the other anniversary others will weep over.