Love is irrational:
I don't want you to leave,
though I know you'll be happier going back to him.
But by being selfish,
am I showing you that I don't love you?
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If I let you leave: you'll think that I don't love you.
If I don't let you leave: I'm don't want you to be happy: you'll think that I don't love you.
Whichever way,
it's wrong,
I'm at fault.
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I just learnt this paradox this afternoon.