Thursday, December 26, 2019

2Q2019

Probably one of the most intense period of my life the past 7 years. This too shall pass, and this too did pass. We’ve both moved on to a better future and I am happy that we are both happy this way.... thanks for the memories and you will always be a big part of my past. 


Strongest pillar in good times 


Writing this retrospectively, it was such a humbling experience to represent Singapore, even if they were only for friendly matches overseas. We didn’t achieve what we set out to, and I didn’t manage to flight alongside these brothers ultimately. But I hadn’t had any expectations to begin with. So it was all gain. Some parts were toxic, but it all turned out more than I could have ever asked for at the end of the day. Thanks for the memories, and perhaps there wouldn’t be a next chapter, but I was happy to have been part of the story. 


I thought long and hard about whether to post this picture because this is no longer the reality. But the beauty (or pitfall) of a procrastinator who post his blogposts late is that he gets a clear sense of what each picture, sentence and even word should convey, long after the pain and heartbreak clouds the better part of him. This is the last time we went out on a date, and before the end came for our fate. I remembered how happy we were, and may we always remember the happiness that we shared. 

And I remember, the song you sang in the public for the first time that night...

可你曾经那么爱我干嘛演出细节
我该变成什么样子才能延缓厌倦 
原来当爱放下防备后的这些那些
才是考验


Strongest pillar in bad times 


Thanks for the company on a random weeknight (and the drinks after)! Probably the last time we hung out as a trio for the rest of the year!!! I wonder why...


And these pillars from pri sch. Gems. Pardon the drunk disgruntled face 


Cultured night part2 of 2019


Somehow the conversion of daily supper for quarterly dinner didn’t affect our friendship. I’m impressed 


From wine to Kopi 


When she still wants huhu


Early birthday pressie from the big sis who brought me into the team! 


Strongest pillar throughout any period of my life. Love you 3million 


Bonus pic 


Then this happened 😍 and we have all already established how life works in mysterious ways. Going one big round and then coming full circle with this one. Not sure how it happened, but this has got yo be the best thing and highest point for a year full of ups and down ☺️


And this is probably the second-best LOL 

This deserves a post - probably at my lowest in years, literally haha. 


And this random lunch when I’m on course near Buona and before this bro relocated to BKK


And this random date to end off a wild quarter 

Friday, December 13, 2019

狼狈的浪漫


This girl taught me that there’re two ways to look at any situation. 

Tho she doesn’t sees them herself sometimes. 

Sunday, November 24, 2019

The better is yet to be

I have been striving so hard to be the best version of myself that I had forgotten to be better. 

Thanks for reminding me and growing better with me. <3 

Wednesday, June 12, 2019

庆兴有你

我们谁也不想走到这一步,但或许这是我俩之间第二最好的结局。

谈笑风生、无忧无虑的交谈间,我知道我们都是为了彼此而做了的这个决定。曾经你我宣誓永不分离、一生相守,如今我们穷途末路走到了这一步。但这七年并未荒废,我们携手同行、并肩成长,为彼此付出、也从彼此身上学习了很多很多。或许七年已远超乎了我们这段爱情的有效期限,但回首这七年,我依然...

庆兴有你



忘了我 曾把你 擁在我心窩
忘了我 曾給你 擁有的所有
忘了我 曾是你的宇宙
不眠不休 無怨無尤
忘了我 多難過 多不能接受
忘了我 只要你好過就足夠
忘了我 忘了我們的夢
當你想起我 我已不是我


世上唯一不变 是人都善变
路过人间 爱都有期限
天可怜见 心碎在所难免


怎麼能輕易說要結束
怎麼會讓你抱著我哭
太努力的我們最後用力給祝福
怎麼看你笑著 我卻心如刀割
原來我們都一樣頑固
怎麼會誰都絕口不提要幸福
再也不能牽著你走未來每一步
我們懷念什麼 失去愛那一刻 才曉得
我们的爱情 到这刚刚好
剩不多也不少 还能忘掉
我应该可以 把自己照顾好
我们的距离 到这刚刚好
不够我们拥抱 就挽回不了
用力爱过的人 不该计较
我们的爱情到这刚刚好
再不争也不吵 不必再煎熬
你可以不用 记得我的好
我们的流浪到这刚刚好
趁我们还没到 天涯海角
我也不是非要去那座城堡
天空有些暗了暗的刚刚好
我难过的样子就没人看到
你别太在意我身上的记号

Thursday, May 30, 2019

Everest Base Camp 2/1/19 - 7/1/19 (Part 3)

Day 13 (3/1/19) Lukla - Kathmandu
Was woken up early in the morning by the hopeful sound of planes flying into the airport that’s just beside our room. 

Waking up right next to this 

Breakfast (Omelet and Apple pancake) and a short trip to the local bazaar later, the second Sita flight landed and we made our way to check in for our flight. 

Pretty crowded for a Thursday morning

Piece of pork, anybody?

Or a live chicken?

One last look at the mountains 

And we made it out of Lukla two days ahead of our itinerary scheduled for, and landed safely in Kathmandu! 

And we're off!

Best part: reunion with my detained luggage! Checked in to Hotel Blue Horizon, bathed for the first time in 10 days, repacked my many items from the two duffels, lunch, nua with the TV, and then finally, farewell dinner with Lakpa... still feels kinda surreal that the whole trip is coming to an end - we were still supposed to be in the mountain tonight and perhaps even tomorrow, but am definitely glad to get out of it. 

Upsized Dal Baat (Tarkari)

"Downgraded" to this hotel to save money - only downside was a slow/late breakfast (not that we need it) and a lack of lift 

The last time we'll see this guy on this trip after spending countless nights together (afternote: realise he's been enduring having piles all these while while climbing with us on the mountains! Checked himself into the hospital the next day...) 

Changed into my own set of clothings, new Invisalign, and just probably a new me in the new year HAHAH. Anyway, managed to changed away the last two (defected) 100-dollar bills and did some simple groceries before heading back for more nua-ness in the hotel. 

Day 14 (4/1/19) Kathmandu 
Breakfast at the hotel was a little too late, with nothing ready at 8am, but at least it didn’t taste too bad. 

Passable

Rushed off for free yoga class, which was a slow-paced relaxing class, courtesy of our massage purchase at Mandala Yoga and Spa. 

Yoga was much needed for the peace; massage was MOST needed for the tired body and soul

Kathmandu has this old world charm, accentuated by the dusty sunlight

Needed this so badly and it was super shiok to say the least. Lunch was an unconventional decision to try Chinese Fried Chicken aka CFC, ‘cos we were lured by the pancakes (ahzong’s usual breakfast during his time in Beijing) - but well, we’ve had “Nepalese” food for the past 10 days in the mountains so it’s good to have a change in taste right haha. 

I mean... I have never had this... so... no harm right haha

Walked around part of Thamel that we have yet to explore before settling to chill at the Himalayan Java Coffee café back at Mandala street.

low altitude chillin' 

Impromptu decision was then made to join the secret food tour with Backstreet Academy and they’re having a marketing campaign so it costs even less than half the original price! 

Something strange, something magical 

The tour took us deep into the labyrinth of small narrow valleys I reckon even the locals could get lost without some practice - Bara, Yomari, Momo, Samosa, Lassi, and the best of these while we’re at it. 

First stop among the locals! 

Bara in the making 

 Bara ready to be swallowed 

Yomari - glutinous rice kind of texture on the outside, coconut-ish kind of fillings inside 

Guess what's cooking? (Feels like we stepped into the wrong hood)

Second stop! 

Another food of legendary status in this country - Momo!

Next stop - just by looking at the number of locals queuing up, you know it's gonna be da bomb

Main reason for the insane queue - super wholesome samosa (more curry puff in our context than our local samosa) coupled with the rich curry sauce, little wonder why people are willing to queue up long lines for this. And look, how environmentally friendly! 

Also had the chance to try this Jalebi (super sweet) and (look at the far left corner) this interesting crispy cup pastry thingy that is used to scoop up a scoop of soup/gravy and served onto the plate everyone is holding on to on their hands. Once done, it's quickly refilled. We tried one, quickly regretted it - kinda weird since the soup/gravy wasn't warm. 

Last stop! And those are the two New Zealanders on our tour. 

Pardon the shakiness, was just too good (and the nightfall brought the cold along). Tough choice deciding if this lassi or the samosa earlier was the best find/highlight of the trip. Not too sweet, not too jalat! 

Guide Aayam was also warm and friendly (he later shared that he was gay, after helping me with the fur left on my hair and face from the massage shower earlier this afternoon, and subsequently also commented that ahzong is cute lol). 

Bonus: really mesmerized by the mystical feel this old city exudes 

Pomegranate brings back mountain memories (hand-cut and served, along with apples, by Bagthan and Lakpa every single night after dinner) 

Random stupa that acts as a gathering point for kids and locals when the night approaches 

We even ended up at the cozy Cafe With No Name to chill together - the care being the entrepreneurial front for the Our Sansar’s Children’s Home. Had a nice chat with Sumi, the shop keeper, who’s in a single-parent family living with her mom and sister, and she shared that because of her parenthood (her father left home when she was four), she doesn’t have a local citizenship. But she sure is mature for her 20-year of age - which is vindicated by her friends who assumed / knew her as a 24-year old, probably her life experiences and her interactions with foreigners made her who she is indeed. We do share one thing in common: a philosophy that “life is a storm”...

And that's Ayyam, who's well aware of its homonym in the Malay language 

Day 15 (5/1/19) Kathmandu 

Dust at dust. Different kind of lighting, different kind of crowd. Same veil of mystery. 

Woke up on our alarm for the first time in 2 weeks and we headed out before the sun completely raised. Breakfast food tour once again brought us to unexpected places and tried delicious local delicacies: Gwaramari (round balls); Sel-Roti with Tea (Chiya); Lakhamari (sugar coated); Jeri-Swari (Flower with dough-wrap); Puri Curry. 

First stop for the morning!

You Tiao, ball version. And that's our guide! Probably too early in the morning, I forgot to ask for his name... haha

Lit a wishing candle and walked through a temple seeking peace and harmony - not just food! 

Second stop: hands down the highlight 

Cos this is perhaps one of the best milk tea ever (slightly too sweet but I'm still gonna say this is the best) 

Goes pretty well with these doughy thingy too! 

Candy shop next! 

Didn't really enjoyed this Lakhamari tho, cos they're just too tough...

Next stop is a old established family business that's famous among the locals, and we came for...

These! This unassuming thing is so so good, mostly because they go so well together. Jeri-Swari as they call it. Without the wrap, the fried dough drenched in sugar would have been too sweet, but together, they're heavenly. 

And our final stop: we're early so there weren't many people in this cramp little shop when we went in. Got packed pretty quickly 

And this: Puri Curry, is what we came for. Was hungry, so they fed me well. 

Namaste, sir. 

Tour ended earlier than expected and we headed down to Le Sherpa Farmer’s Market: was pretty secluded but definitely very upmarket inside - European even. Prices were reasonable but we were full and also decided on buying anything from the market in the end. 

Doesn't feel Kathmandu at all. There were even Singaporeans setting up a stall here! 

Chilled at the cafe nearby before we head over to Boudhanath finally (lol, finally managed to convince Ahzong to check this off my list) cos we ran out of things to do. Tourist trap but ok, checking it off the list. 

Biggest stupa in Nepal. Gotta come no matter, right haha

Even nearing noon, the veil of dust makes a natural filter for the city 

Gone up to the rooftop cafe but thought chillin back in hotel makes more sense so we headed back to Thamel without spending too much more (budget’s tight!). Headed for the bookstore and the books were really cheap! Snapped up two books to read on the flight home and it’s lunch! Temptation from the clique’s bbq countdown was strong, so Korean bbq it is! 

I put 100% of the blame on the rest of the gang in Singapore 

Just opposite our hotel and reasonably priced, food was good too! Spent the rest of the afternoon nuaing with the tv and took a short nap to make up for the early morning. Called in for dinner room service cos lazy haha. 

I mean, it's free... why not, right? haha 

Headed back to the super mart to buy some souvenirs using my credit card before we headed back to New Orleans Bar to fulfil our promise to the singer that we’ll be back (not that he remembers). Atmosphere was as great as ever #goodvibes! Started and ended our Nepal trip at this place felt about right... 

Day 16 (6/1/19) Kathmandu - Delhi 
And as with all things, this trip has come to an end. Simple breakfast at our hotel and checked out. Reached the airport and just when you thought we’ve had enough of airports, the flight out of Kathmandu got delayed due to the morning hazy. And that’s not it, we missed the connecting... Guess we both got pretty used to delays and screwed up plans by now, we we practically just resigned to fate. We were even slightly happy with the free hotel and lunch when the guy told us to head to Holiday Inn. So our 8-hour ordeal in Delhi begins, along with a nice Nepali girl and a Singaporean-Korean girl. But that’s not all, the flight got delayed even further! Turns out our nemesis isn’t the mountain, but the flights...

One last night of free hotel stay, I guess! 

Day 17 (7/1/19) Delhi - Singapore 
An unexpected extension to the trip was disruptive, but guess that also mean I got an extra day of rest (from my MC). Got home without much drama, thankfully. 

Gotta say we should have prayed more sincerely at all the temples we've been to. Lots of takeaways, biggest of all: no power banks in check in luggage! 

Oh wells.